“Waiting too long is knowing what you needed, and realizing it wasn’t Him!”
How long are you supposed to wait for him to get his act together?
Should he be perfect?
Ladies how long should you wait for a man to mature? Is it about the “waiting game?” or about the need to drop selfishness?
Traditionally, women ‘s imagery of what a “good” man should look like parallels a fairy tale. This unrealistic portrayal of what a man is supposed be lingers with some woman today.
Men look to give everything a woman desires. Fix every problem, and spoil her to the nth degree. We do this because we were designed, trained, and told this is what a “man” does!
When it comes to men living up to some women’s preset standards, how can you expect “your” perfection overnight?
Was the fairy tale an illusion of a care giving man catering to a selfish woman?
How long should you wait?
You shouldn’t! If the man you desire is ordained for you, you should have patience!
Do you believe in your man?
The difference between waiting and having patience is a woman waiting remains in rest of expectations. Over time she grows into the definition of impatience.
A temporary state of being neglected.
In this state of repose she will not be satisfied until something she expects happens!
What are your expectations of men?
Are your expectations unrealistic for your man?
A patient woman has the ability, the willingness to suppress her restlessness or annoyance when confronted with delay. She has a quiet, steady perseverance; even-tempered care; diligence!
Do you have the patience for a God driven man? Are you a God driven woman, or are you driven by success alone?
You cannot wait for a male to give you tangible possessions you should already possess.
A woman is what a man desires. He yearns to be the man you need him to be while practicing patience as a virtue! This man you are “waiting on” needs to build towards a loving relationship with himself first and foremost to appreciate his time with you.
STOP being selfish! Growth has no time limit!
If the male you are “waiting on” has no plan, no vision, no guidance, no faith, and is not spirit driven, he will not teach or reach you. It will be apparent in how he handles you, and circumstances of his true character.
A man who is patiently working towards giving you his all plans to take care of his responsibilities, and desires that his actions and words hold his character accountable.
He desires appreciation!
It’s not about waiting! It’s about knowing your limitations. Do you trust his vision?
Love knows how to treat someone other than yourself!
How deep is your patience?